my opinion

I think self harming is a cry for both.
I hate self harming! I personally know people who self harm and hate that their doing this to themselves .

Then i go on instagram and find out that one of my favorite fandom accounts is self-harming . The person who owns the fandom account is 12! like why? most people commenting were like: "stop it! don't do this to yourself ! you are a beautiful person! fuck the haters and bullies!" and etc. i just read the caption and some comments and scrolled. No.i am not heartless,i just know how it feels like to be self-harming.some times you want your followers to help you out of depression. It works sometimes,and other times it works...until something goes wrong. TO ALL FOLLOWERS OF ACCOUNT OWNERS WHO SELF HARM:YOU CAN'T FIX EVERYTHING! Self harming was supposed to be personal before cut shots were put online.personal as in friends and maybe families who you love and know and trust. People who can make your online AND outside life better. BETTER! it won't be great until THAT person who has harmed themselves learn to love themselves,respect themselves and realize that there are people who love them and want them to get better. Until they learn that  they are not alone in this world.Now let's talk about the haters.....
haters....you may not realize this but you have self harmed too. whether it was cutting,pinching,slamming your head on something hard,hitting a wall or anything else that will harm you.So...shut up you hypocrite you shouldn't be talking .
                                        just my opinion,
                                                           society sucks
      p.s. running is another example of self harming